It’s been waaaaay too long!

I’ve decided that it’s been way too long since I wrote a blog.  I think it’s been more than a week, and that’s really bad.  I don’t know, I think I’ve just been really busy studying for my state boards for my nursing license because time has just flown by.  Anyways…not much has really been going on.  I stayed in last weekend for the first time in a very long time and it felt great!  I don’t know, but I think I had forgotten what it was like to just chill out on a saturday night.  It was fabulous though and I felt great on Sunday morning; not a common thing for me because I seem to go out every Saturday night to drink and socialize.

Speaking of going out, I went out tonight.  Which is probably why I’m here writing a blog at 4:03 am EST!  It was a pretty fun night.  I definitely learned a lot from the experiences my friends are going through right now.  Two of my really good friends, Jenny and Sierra, have been going through break-ups this week.  Jenny has been with Robert for over two years now and is definitely in love with him.  There’s only one problem though.  She has cheated on him one too many times and it has really hurt him to the point that he doesn’t know if they are right for eachother.  They live together, so when they broke up last week it was pretty rough.  Definitely not a clean break because they have to see eachother everyday.  Jenny is definitely not over him, but can’t figure out why she needs to have a fling with one particular guy every now and again.

Sierra had been with her boyfriend for a year or so (I’m not all too sure).  They broke up about two weeks ago because both had been having negative feelings.  She was upset over some things he had done that she doesn’t like a boyfriend to do.  But that’s not the reason they broke up.  It’s because he told her that he had lost feelings for her back in August and that he felt they weren’t right for eachother.  Thus, Sierra broke up with him.

Tonight, both of them had this epiphany.  They both are in love with their exes and want to be with them forever.  Robert came out with us tonight, so I guess that’s what really got Jenny, because this is the first time he’s been out with us since they broke up.  Sierra texted Sean a sexually related messages in a foreign language because she wanted him to think about her…and it worked.  By the end of the night, Jenny ended up really upset about her situation and we all ended up picking Sean up so that he could be with Sierra.  It was a very interresting night.

So you may ask what I got out of this as an innocent bystander.  Well, I think I need to interpret everything a little more to get a full understanding of everything going on and see what happens in the next couple weeks.  But, I think I do have an idea of what might be going on.  There are two different ways this whole thing could be interpreted.  Either these girls truley are in love with their significant others, or, they are stuck because they won’t let themselves leave something so familiar to them.  It is much easier to stay with something that you know and are familiar with than to try to start something new with someone else.  This is something that happens very often, and this is why there is such a high divorce rate.  I just hope that if my friends are realy in love with these guys that everything works out and that they can get past the things that caused the break-ups in the first place.  I love my friends and just want them to be happy, but I might as well learn something in the process, right?!


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